Iāve been locked in a chess game w myself for the past 4 years now. This has been the most successful hardline āturn-my-smart-phone-into-a-flip-phoneā compromise Iāve been able to come up with so far. Screen time settings > max content restrictions > ban App Store > close. accessibility> display > color filters > black and white. Every time I open the phone it inflicts psychic damage. You have a trusted friend or family member set up a screen time passcode & guard it like a Nazi. You need to have someone in your life who you can trust to be a Nazi. You change your icloud password too, make it a random string of numbers & letters and hide it in a mundane place thatās annoying to get to. I have a cobweb ridden storage shed in my backyardā this is where I keep my iCloud password.
If I manage to find a way around the blocks Iāve set up, I ask The screen time pw keeper to help me get into the settings & update the list of websites I have manually blocked.
You can do all this on your computer too, but only if itās a mac. And even still; itās very easy to get around these things. I installed a software called āCOLD TURKEY BLOCKERā. I imported a list of over 2,000 websites that are haram. I will not be able to log on to any of them for 10 years at least. Prior to this, I had an intricate web of extensions that I bypassed by discovering the ābrowse as guestā feature in chrome & Firefox. I also used an Israeli child protection software called ācanopyā, but found it expensive bloatware. Cold Turkey is the best way forward for me now.
Instagram, Twitter, every website that you can possibly nameā Iāve blocked them all. This is my only social media. This, and LinkedIn.
Iām finally going to become who I was always meant to be. Untouched, exempt, unaware, pure. Like a baby monk. I will write my screeenplay. Itās a buddy comedy about a couple of knuckleheads who decide to start sticking up convenience stores out of boredom.
I will start rock climbing & praying every day. And Iām going to mean it when I pray. and God will hear me and know that while Iām naĆÆve, Iām earnest and that I need Him. Iām going to lift weights & read booksā cold showers every day & no podcasts (Spotify & podcasts app deleted from my phone). I will perfext my internal monologue. My voice will get deeper naturally, and my posture will correct such that it looks like Iām 2 inches taller (this is the increase that most would consider within reason [it would also take me from 6 foot to 6 foot 2 inches {realistically, I will probably be 6ā1ā when the whole shooting match is over. This is fine for me}]).
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I still might get a flip phone. Iām partial to Kyocera DuraXE. High quality, ergonomic, reliable. Itās gotta be reliable. Itās gotta be simple.