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recently I had this guy who asked me out and the date went well, but the second time we hung out the vibe was so rancid it could be cut with a knife. I apologized and asked hey what’s up and he said nothing.
The day after he just said well we don’t vibe at all and I tried to ask to expand on it (I’m autistic as fuck, I really try to learn from every relationship even flings like this) and he blocked me.
The moral of the lesson is: Shouldn’t give men calico critters even if they get in a car crash.
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OfficerN64 thank you!! It was at the fair and instead of buying myself something I got something for him and I rlly regret it now 😭
sounds like you were open to a new experience and asked for clarity when you felt things were off - that’s some emotionally intelligent shit you should be proud of. His loss frfr
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I’ve been on like 5 bumble dates till now and two of them were the worst experiences ever, the other three were ok.
I feel like there is a pressure on everyone to find someone, this pressure came upon me thanks to my therapist🥰✌️🥰✌️🥰she said to me, you are going to uni and never been in a relationship wtf is wrong with u🥹❤️🥹❤️
sooo I stumbled upon bumble and other dating apps and my first date was me getting sexually assaulted 😋😭😔🤪🤫💕😬🇺🇸
then somehow I continued going on dates with just girls bc fuck men am I right? and they were just basically a waste of time 😁
now after my fifth and hopefully final date from a dating app, I am officially quitting this. I feel so worthless trying to show myself off by just some lousy pictures and a one liner that says nothing about me.
I just want to live on my own and like someone not by how they want to be seen, but how they actually are
I feel so ashamed of even being on a dating app sometimes, that I get depressed. I get this feeling that I am superficial and just desperate for attention. I need the validation of someone I don’t even know to feel like I am worth something.
Not being loved till now has made me feel like I am worth nothing, that nobody will ever want me or need me. That is why I continue doing this shit and I am stopping TODAY
wish me luck😬🥰🚬🥺🤪🚬😬👈🥰🦅😮💨
Aug 15, 2024
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I was celibi-cied for like 3 years after my situationship became an ‘omfg-you-are-a-serial-cheater-on-your-girlfriend-of-four-years!’ Hella afraid of love, intimacy and everything.
over the past few months, I’ve been casual dating for no other means than finding out what I like and don’t like. I’ve had good and bad sex, been given flowers on the first date and then ghosted, moved to the UK and had my first proper one night stand (every other one was too drunken to remember lol) and am currently on my first bae-cation with a man I am slowly falling in love with.
I promise you, dating for fun rather than for long-term involvement is so much more enriching than you think. As you’re floating around, you learn to decenter men and tolerate their mansplaining a lot less. You find out that no, you do not want to make a sex tape on the first date, and then you’ll slowly trickle in the good stuff. Kind men who just listen to you, and are a little different than the other men you’ve seen. You‘ll learn to love being treated kindly, and cherish that above all else story-watching-liking-no game bs.
It’s sounds sooo irritating to say shit like phhh don’t look for it, it’ll come for you!! But girl as annoying as it is… that is the truth of the matter. I don’t know if this guy is my finish
line, but I did just orgasm like 8 times 🙏🏾 I met on hinge, and lowkey ghosted him intially. give the guy in your dms a chance for real ….
Wishing you and your future lover all the best….
p.s copying the other user by attaching a relevant song 😛
Nov 10, 2024
i have a folder of screenshots on my phone called “dating app horrors” so there’s quite a few
one of the worst ones has to be in response to my somewhat silly prompt saying that i was looking for “rom-coms (romantic communists)” & this man who labeled himself as conservative and had multiple pictures of him with guns liked my profile and said “Hey girl, I want you to turn my bloodline into a breadline”
i also met my ex who was a serial cheater on a dating app.
scarred for life! delete your dating apps y’all! free yourself!
Feb 23, 2024
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