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Sometimes if I'm by myself and I can't sleep, I just say (in my head) "I love you, _____" to whoever comes to mind.
Once I've gone through all of the obvious loves of my life who I see regularly, people I almost entirely forgot about will come to mind which is sweet, and sometimes people I don't like will come to mind, but because I'm so sleepy I'm like ok whatever all is forgiven love you, which is freeing.
Anyway it feels like I'm sending little wishes to everyone :)
Feb 15, 2025
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Even if it’s 8am, preemptively wishing sweet dreams for later.
This isn’t as much of a ritual as an impulse but I’m in love with it for two reasons.
One is that people start giggling, before they’re familiar with you saying this all of the time, because they’re thrown off to hear it when they aren’t even close to bedtime.
But also because people start to say it back to you and associate you with it.
My heart melts every day when I leave work or leave the bar to a chorus of people wishing me sweet dreams lol
Apr 26, 2025
I started doing this a year ago when I got out of a really traumatic situationship. (NO NOT YOU) Every night before bed I hug myself and say “I love you Comet”. It sounds totally tiktok therapy brain but it really has boosted my confidence at least 10%
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“hey, you’re doing so good”
“I love you, I’m proud of you”
I think it sends a life line sometimes and I try to do it as often as I remember.
Mar 15, 2024
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Any man, any task. I’m sure there are other ways to strengthen your relationships with men but this is the easiest I’ve found and my method also gets a task done.
Ask your dad to build shelves, ask some guy on your street to mow your lawn, ask your friend to collect a parcel for you, ask your brother to hang a picture frame. So many tasks get done and so many men feel needed and appreciated. Could offer them a beer to make it transactional but it’s almost never necessary.
Mar 5, 2025
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it's soooo sexy to just get over things. what ever baby we all die come to the party tonight the love is still here! everyone should kiss and make up imo
Feb 15, 2025