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I know you feel incredibly single today, same. but don’t even thiiiink about downloading that fuckass app. It’s not worth it, I PROMISE you are doing fine on your own. But, if you do decide to download a wretched dating app anyways, please keep in mind that the one holding a dead fish in their dating profile is probably not going to love you with tenderness and understanding for a lifetime. Don’t settle.
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Feb 14, 2025

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I downloaded one a few days ago and it was the worst decision ever. The worst part is the absolute devastation when you see who your match follows on Instagram. Just the most heinous. Awful.
Feb 14, 2025
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valoorie I’ve gone on a few tinder dates before and realized tinder is NOTTT the place for lovergirls and romantics lol
Feb 14, 2025
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starlet I’ve only been on one bumble date and I actually enjoyed it a lot……..then got ghosted. So no, the apps are so not lover girl friendly.
Feb 14, 2025
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after my breakup over a year ago i decided not to download any dating apps, and i still haven't, and i think that's been the best decision for me. this website is the closest thing to a "dating app" that i'm on currently. i've gone on dates here and there, but all people i've met out in the wild. just feels like so much less pressure and stress when dating/finding a relationship isn't the center of my universe!!
Feb 24, 2024
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Wouldn’t say I’m desperate, but I’m actively interested in a relationship, trying to move on from a past too complicated and dark to describe on here, but I feel that having that bond with someone and making endlessly fun memories would be a huge benefit, as well as sharing a part of yourself with someone who’s really special and deserving of it.
I know I’m not that bad-looking of a guy, but I haven’t really had much luck on the apps, tried to curtail my profile to be more appearing, whole nine yards. It’s getting to be a bummer.
Should I ditch the app and just let fate take its course?
Feb 16, 2025
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Everyone disappoints me in ways unimaginable. I’m honestly aghast and disturbed by the men I have encountered on these godforsaken apps. And the worst part of it all is that now I’m spiraling about the concept of true love, family, and motherhood. What a wonderful way to end my work week. The moral of the story is listen to what everyone tells you: just stop using the apps. It’s never going to work.
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