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People will push you and try to dim your light with their negativity. It‘s always up to you to on how that affects you. Feel bad for negative people but don’t let negative people make you feel bad.
Feb 12, 2025
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If it irritates you to see people being negative, you know thats not something you yourself want to be. Dwell on why negativity bothers you. I‘d guess it has something to do with an innate knowledge that we all deserve kindness. Typically super negative people feel horribly about themselves, they have no other reason to say the things they do. It’s the type of person that tends to annoy me as well but when I think about that it makes me really sad for them, and then it feels easier to be compassionate. Anger releases dopamine. If you’re sad all the time, it feels better to get angry for a while. They’re struggling and desperately trying to make themselves feel better. We all need each others love.
Jan 28, 2025
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it’s too many negative people around me it fucking sucks and it’s draining me dude maybe try being positive????
Apr 25, 2024
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Save your energy, don‘t focus too much on their intentions, actions speak louder than words.
So let them be, never change because you got treated badly, stay nice, treat people good, smile without expecting it in return. some people are just ugly on the inside and you should accept that and move on.
Redefine your boundaries, because not everyone deserves your time.
A lot of people are still projecting their insecurities and have a hard time to just be direct and honest about what they want and need.
I wasted a lot of time and energy trying to save many “friendships” because i appreciated the person but it was not worth, so i will let them be, but that doesn’t mean i will be available once they come back, quite the opposite.
Out of sight out of mind.
If they don’t know your worth, block them, ignore their text, archive the conversation, delete the number.
You know why ? Because one day you will meet people who will show you that whatever you were doing to maintain your previous relationships with people was never too much ! Was never clingy !
Be safe ! Love yourself first and focus on your own growth ! Forget those who did you wrong !
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There are a few things I do such as:
- Take vitamin D supplements during the gloomier months. My friend has been telling me for years and I finally did it and feel the difference.
- Any sliver of sun you see stand in it. Bask in it. We need it.
- Check if you’re dehydrated with the skin pinch test. If you fail, then get some electrolytes or coconut water in you.
- Go on a walk. Any physical activity to get your dopamine back.
- Delete all social media apps on my phone.
- A new one I’ve been experimenting with is soundbaths. You can either listen to YouTube videos of it or find a local class. Have tried this for the past few months and I feel reset.
- And sometimes you just need a good night out at a rave/concert where the music is so loud you don’t have to talk to anyone, you can disassociate and let the music drown out whatever is on your mind.
Dec 13, 2024
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This is a podcast about two black female scientist best friends that discuss the science of things. I loved this podcast so much and I’m sad that they don’t make new episodes.
Dec 3, 2024
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You could get them a bunch of cute spoon rests! I saw one recently that looked like ravioli.
Dec 11, 2024