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Negative people are sad

If it irritates you to see people being negative, you know thats not something you yourself want to be. Dwell on why negativity bothers you. I‘d guess it has something to do with an innate knowledge that we all deserve kindness. Typically super negative people feel horribly about themselves, they have no other reason to say the things they do. It’s the type of person that tends to annoy me as well but when I think about that it makes me really sad for them, and then it feels easier to be compassionate. Anger releases dopamine. If you’re sad all the time, it feels better to get angry for a while. They’re struggling and desperately trying to make themselves feel better. We all need each others love.

@archibald

Jan 28, 2025

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Staying positive

People will push you and try to dim your light with their negativity. It‘s always up to you to on how that affects you. Feel bad for negative people but don’t let negative people make you feel bad.

@cosmicbrownies

Feb 12, 2025

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reminding myself i do not have to like everyone

I know this app is mainly about positivity and this sounds on the surface negative, but it really needs to be said/I need to remind myself of this... precisely because it leads to goodness i.e. following my actual intentions/desires/wants in who I want around me. not gonna pander and cater and mask anymore, its exhausting. adapting to groups is a good skill, but subduing oneself is not one I wanna spend time on

@wrytings

Apr 3, 2024

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snack plates

makes me feel fancy and stuff; also gimme recs on what i should try for snack future snack plates :)

@whykayla

Feb 17, 2025

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them big ass scooby doo sandwiches

literally the only thing i wanna eat rn with a big ass bag of sunchips and a fruit punch arizona

@whykayla

Apr 26, 2024

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solo dating

there are two types of solo dates i go on: one, where i sit with myself like at a restaurant/cafe i wanted to try or a movie i really wanted to see to enjoy it how i want to or two, where i surround myself with a new community so i feel less alone but I AM alone bc no one knows me options for one: movies, cafe/restaurant, library, thrifting, doing art outside, spa day, making a new meal at home, getting a sweet treat options for two: cooking classes, gym/zoomba classes, book clubs, pottery, hiking groups, escape rooms these are off the top of my head but enjoy yourself love there’s no one better to have fun with than yourself !

@whykayla

Apr 28, 2024