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* Loungewear in public
* Big pants and really anything oversized that isnāt tailored and intentional
* Intentionally frumpy clothes that make you look like youāve just given up on being respected
* Athletic shoes
* Flip flops obviously
* Logos and brand names
* Graphic T-shirts
* Overly flashy clothes unless theyāre flashy in a funny kitschy way as one accent piece
* Anything on trend
* Anything that screams for attention
* Most colors except for black
* Black dresses without black hosiery; it just looks unfinished and sloppy to me and interrupts the sleek line
* Synthetic fabrics for the most part
* Accessories that look too new
* Matching sets; matchy outfits in general
Jan 23, 2025
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šI can wear really āuncomfortableā clothing (heels, corset tops etc). If I donāt like to look at myself or feel uncomfortable in an outfit it is probably because I donāt like the way it looks. I often feel less comfortable in my ācomfyā clothes than my going out clothes. Sensation of discomfort usually tells me I donāt like what Iām wearing.
Otherwise, if I follow this format for my outfit I know I am set. For the day: long dress, ballet flats or sandals, bag and sunglasses that match the shoes and dress equally (either sunglasses match dress and bag matches shoes or vice versa). For night, little black dress and black boots, hoops and a statement bag. Iāll always feel stun if I wear this.
Otherwise, if I follow this format for my outfit I know I am set. For the day: long dress, ballet flats or sandals, bag and sunglasses that match the shoes and dress equally (either sunglasses match dress and bag matches shoes or vice versa). For night, little black dress and black boots, hoops and a statement bag. Iāll always feel stun if I wear this.
Feb 8, 2024
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āmicro shorts...for some reason
tight fitted t-shirts back again
belts on skirts
knit fabric
flats???
so many sunglasses
What I think should be in: mixing metals feminine linens hair styles and accessorizing dresses COLOR!!!
What I think should be in: mixing metals feminine linens hair styles and accessorizing dresses COLOR!!!
Apr 23, 2025
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šAny good outfit, for me, has an element that is masculine-coded, an element that is feminine-coded, and an element of sexiness/unexpectedness. Straight leg denim + Miu Miu ballet flats + a low-cut button down. An oversized crewneck + a mini skirt + a visible bra strap and kitten heels. It never fails.
Feb 24, 2024
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My dad teases me about how when I was a little kid, my favorite thing to do when I was on the landline phone with somebodyābe it a relative or one of my best friendsāwas to breathlessly describe the things that were in my bedroom so that they could have a mental picture of everything I loved and chose to surround myself with, and where I sat at that moment in time. Perfectly Imperfect reminds me of that so thanks for always listening and for sharing with me too š
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