I can wear really āuncomfortableā clothing (heels, corset tops etc). If I donāt like to look at myself or feel uncomfortable in an outfit it is probably because I donāt like the way it looks. I often feel less comfortable in my ācomfyā clothes than my going out clothes. Sensation of discomfort usually tells me I donāt like what Iām wearing.
Otherwise, if I follow this format for my outfit I know I am set. For the day: long dress, ballet flats or sandals, bag and sunglasses that match the shoes and dress equally (either sunglasses match dress and bag matches shoes or vice versa). For night, little black dress and black boots, hoops and a statement bag. Iāll always feel stun if I wear this.
Feb 8, 2024
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Heeled little ankle boots/low-cut booties and big black sunglasses. Maybe a blazer with the sleeves rolled up or a big camo scarf wrapped around my arms leaving my shoulders exposed. slouchy beige allsaints mini tote. Black dress black sheer tights and black platform Mary Janes with a chunky block heel if I have somewhere to go
Apr 11, 2024
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* Loungewear in public
* Big pants and really anything oversized that isnāt tailored and intentional
* Intentionally frumpy clothes that make you look like youāve just given up on being respected
* Athletic shoes
* Flip flops obviously
* Logos and brand names
* Graphic T-shirts
* Overly flashy clothes unless theyāre flashy in a funny kitschy way as one accent piece
* Anything on trend
* Anything that screams for attention
* Most colors except for black
* Black dresses without black hosiery; it just looks unfinished and sloppy to me and interrupts the sleek line
* Synthetic fabrics for the most part
* Accessories that look too new
* Matching sets; matchy outfits in general
Jan 23, 2025
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Any good outfit, for me, has an element that is masculine-coded, an element that is feminine-coded, and an element of sexiness/unexpectedness. Straight leg denim + Miu Miu ballet flats + a low-cut button down. An oversized crewneck + a mini skirt + a visible bra strap and kitten heels. It never fails.
Feb 24, 2024
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Sometimes I recommend being a hater. Iām not here to talk about the numerous quality uses of AI, how often it is actually used nor am I here to critique AI without strawmanning it. I donāt care if I strawman an account of AI because I genuinely despise the way most people use AI. I think AI generated images are ugly. I think that AI cannot hold a half decent conversation. Iām completely avoidant when it comes to showing AI my writing; Iāve never done it and I refuse to. I hate when you go to that one poetry website and there is AI āanalysisā there, because its not real textual analysis and it upholds a certain contextualised intentionalist framework of reading a text reinforced in high school English. I hate that the meta AI will influence what products will be advertised to you. I donāt care if itās the future. I genuinely love being called a dinosaur because I hate AI.
Sep 24, 2024
When we let go of the fear we hold towards the smallest creatures of our environment, and learn how to immerse ourself in an instance of nature rather than making an instance of nature our own, we learn to truly be alive. Bugs are great because you canāt own them, but you can admire their beauty. #bugnation2024
Jan 21, 2024
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Itās now beat babaganoush as my favourite dip.
Aug 31, 2024