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creating for fun â alone & w/friends
sharing online without self judgementÂ
flirting w/no expectation
deactivating w/no reason
intentional friendships
community as a verb
following my own timeline
completing books
mindful journaling
collecting hobbies like shells
straightforwardnessÂ
game nightsÂ
internal validation
thoughtful approach to physical affection
home cooked meals
asking for favorsÂ
financial independenceÂ
multiple streams of incomeÂ
healthy dose of delusionÂ
intense eye contactÂ
intentional datesÂ
out
over self indulgence in restÂ
non reciprocal relationships
over explainingÂ
overthinking shit that doesnât require an overthoughtÂ
self inflicted emotional sadismÂ
frivolous spendingÂ
babying men â in the workplace & in friendshipsÂ
keeping clothing items that have been unworn for monthsÂ
random hookupsÂ
living paycheck to paycheck
keeping the peace in toxic environments
wishing ppl who did you wrong well after (in fact were not even gonna wish them anything)
after hoursÂ
Jan 23, 2025
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IN
-creativity
-chai-der
-routines
-movement breaks
-cultivating wonder
-community organizing
-live theater
-budgeting
-making strange acquaintances
-picking up interesting rocks
-introspection
-having a laugh with friends
-baths
-the elderly
OUT
-looksmaxxing
-directing self-hatred outward
-people-pleasing
-remembering past G.P.A.s
-curated vintage t-shirts
-booktok
-using therapy speak to gossip
-identical bridesmaid dresses
-listening to playlists for nostalgia purposes
-intermittent fasting
-playing things by ear
take note: more things are in than out!
Jan 15, 2025
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In:
⢠more quality time with the girlies
⢠deactivating Instagram until further notice
⢠only thrifting gifts & âwantsâ from here on out
⢠doing schoolwork at the local library
⢠expanding my garden area
⢠outdoor concerts
⢠somatic therapy
Out:
⢠dating (for now)
⢠feeling insecure about my big ass forehead lol
⢠obsessing over work and school
⢠living in the future instead of the now
⢠reading self-help books
⢠being a people pleaser
⢠spending without intention
Apr 17, 2024
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Ins:
* shooting delusionally high for my goals
* heat styling my hair
* further investing in friendships and other relationships
* long-term gratification
* vetting; divesting time and energy wisely
* top-level maslowian needs, third eye and crown chakra activation, etc
Outs:
* giving myself too freely (Not in a sex way in an every other way way)
* trying to fit square pegs into round holes (also not in a sex way in a metaphorical way)
* dressing purposefully frumpy
* being a huge bitch; paradoxically, also being too accommodating and understanding
Dec 21, 2024
Top Recs from @rayfulosunshine
went to my roommates boyfriendâs art show last minute and did not regret. Definitely didnât know what I was getting myself into and despite my exhaustion peaking 15 min into our time at the gallery i very much enjoyed it.
100 artists had their artwork featured in various fridge doors. Very beautiful concept.
Feb 22, 2025
I know a book is good if Iâm tearing up.
And this one did just that.
Very sad. Very beautiful. Very heartbreaking. Written from the a journaling perspective of the main character whoâs mentally disabled and becomes the perfect candidate for a surgery that allows him to be a functioning member to society and experience life from a new perspective.
Feb 9, 2025
been unemployed for the last 7 months due to burnout and health issues and although I was financially prepared to be unemployed for 5mo. Iâve spent the past 3mo aggressively job hunting and every interview Iâve had (about 10-15 of them) have been depleting my self esteem.
however. I have a renewed sense of hope and anticipation for the right opportunity to cross my path and todays pre-interview moment was spent affirming myself and taking a selfie to remind myself that âI am indeed that bitchâ and anyone would be lucky to have me as their employee.
Feb 25, 2025