I have an irrefutable habit of never choosing to accept a side, in any argument, ever. I have the ability to see the positives and drawbacks of each scenario. Itās helped me gain an array of experience and I seem to like that about myself!
I try to remember this a lot when Iām frustrated with people. Nobody is out to get you. Others are thinking about themselves most of the time anyway. Communication is so important- people canāt meet expectations if you donāt make them known.
today someone told me something about myself and they were just so completely off base that i started questioning my tone and facial expressions bc that was in no way the vibe i was going for
a related anti rec: people who meet you once and assume that they know everything about you (which they obviously donāt)
