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PROTECTING YOUR PEACE

just because you feel sorry for someone does not mean you should endure their negative behaviour!

@jilly

May 23, 2025

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Not getting along

It’s okay to not be friends with everyone! but please don’t tell me that I’m the problem in your life when you can’t explain why! it makes me feel bad, it makes you feel bad, it hurts me, it hurts you, and now I’m gonna tell my safe little relatable pi.fyi friends 😬 we can co-exist and be different and do different things and have different interests and hang out with different friends and we don’t have to link arms and skip around yk

@genevieve

Feb 6, 2025

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refrain from constantly bringing negativity into interactions

I don’t mean this in a let’s enforce toxic positivity way. And maybe this sounds simple and obvious but I’ve learned from my own experience and observations that it can be off-putting to others to always be complaining, criticizing, or saying negative things! It can really bring the energy down whether it’s in interactions with close friends, significant others, family, coworkers, dates, or strangers and it doesn’t make people feel good. This isn’t to say that you should never have critical thoughts, engage in difficult conversations, or share your heavy emotions with people you trust. but I think this is something people can do without even realizing it’s a pattern for them and it has an effect on your own psyche as well imo… and it feels great to bring a little light into someone’s day 🌦️

@taterhole

Apr 19, 2024

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Desktop visual on my phone - Windows 95

I can’t find the Creator and i am mad about it because i wanna credit the one who made sure to put this for free. I’ve found this website RetroPrint where they show the details of how you can make a Windows 95 customised theme on your phone (with over 800 icons app to choose from 27 of them are already made for the modern apps like netflix twitter etc - some graphics for the widgets too And 3 sounds.)

@la9atate

Jan 30, 2025

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“Bed rotting” privilege

The fact that i can stay in bed warm with my phone or laptop and music in the background as i watch my favourite movies/series/youtube vids with a warm tea is simple enough to make me grateful for wherever i am today. Worrying about what I should wear to work is a beautiful thing because it’s a privilege that sadly some people can’t afford :( Complaining about to cook is a beautiful thing because someone somewhere sadly can’t even afford/have access to a simple bread piece. Literally feeling the warmth of the sun while standing waiting for the bus is a beautiful thing to cherish and be grateful for.

@la9atate

Jan 11, 2025

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Scanned dots

If there is one style that literally calms me is stippling. The endless dots, the slow process, the nuance effect, the final results. I just love it and appreciate it even more when i spend hours/days to finish one.

@la9atate

Jan 13, 2025