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Put your values first; be a snooty bitch and walk away from situations that donât serve you rather than trying to control them.
Dec 13, 2024
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đSave your energy, donât focus too much on their intentions, actions speak louder than words.
So let them be, never change because you got treated badly, stay nice, treat people good, smile without expecting it in return. some people are just ugly on the inside and you should accept that and move on.
Redefine your boundaries, because not everyone deserves your time.
A lot of people are still projecting their insecurities and have a hard time to just be direct and honest about what they want and need.
I wasted a lot of time and energy trying to save many âfriendshipsâ because i appreciated the person but it was not worth, so i will let them be, but that doesnât mean i will be available once they come back, quite the opposite.
Out of sight out of mind.
If they donât know your worth, block them, ignore their text, archive the conversation, delete the number.
You know why ? Because one day you will meet people who will show you that whatever you were doing to maintain your previous relationships with people was never too much ! Was never clingy !
Be safe ! Love yourself first and focus on your own growth ! Forget those who did you wrong !
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đ¤šIn my opinion, the key to being a bitch is being respectful.
Now the way you apply this is you need to respect yourself and others. As long as you use common sense and let others know what is bothering/ not working/ inconvenient to you in a way that is not meant to hurt anyone simply communicating clearly and explaining (I understand that this might be controversial -you don't owe anyone explanations but it is a relationship that you care about and would like to keep putting the effort of communicating your reasons seems reasonable to me-
If this does not work, it is time to walk away. No drama or bad blood, keep a cold yet polite (it works especially if you are overly polite) distance.
This approach mitigates the fear of not people please because you are doing NOTHING wrong.
Jul 22, 2024
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â¤ď¸letting ppl down is inevitable. i donât strive for it but itâs brought me peace knowing that to be a human is to disappoint here and there.
Sep 3, 2024
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Nov 16, 2024
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âłIâm on the wrong side of 33 and i can tell you with utmost certainty that your 20s is the most chaotic time of your life and itâs amazing that anyone actually gets anything done during them. If youâre a type a planning type personality however I would recommend:
- if youâre the sort of person who cares about diet and fitness, establish those routines in your 20s - live where you wanna live. Donât live somewhere you hate because you think youâll have more fun later cos you wonât - get a job that makes reliable money that you can tolerate and go back to if your dreams fall through. It doesnât have to be a dream job it just has to pay the rent and not make you sad - don't smoke cigarettes
- use sunscreen
- be as cringe as you want. People expect it from you anyway. They wonât have as much patience in your 30s.
- if youâre the sort of person who cares about diet and fitness, establish those routines in your 20s - live where you wanna live. Donât live somewhere you hate because you think youâll have more fun later cos you wonât - get a job that makes reliable money that you can tolerate and go back to if your dreams fall through. It doesnât have to be a dream job it just has to pay the rent and not make you sad - don't smoke cigarettes
- use sunscreen
- be as cringe as you want. People expect it from you anyway. They wonât have as much patience in your 30s.
Nov 25, 2024
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đWalking into a formal celebration and taking in everyone looking and smelling good. The smell always stays with me the mostâcologne, soap, hair product, cigarettes, leather, shoe polish. Everyone so clean and proud and a little bit shy. So special.
Dec 7, 2024