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inviting all your friends into your house then eating dinner with them and then playing cards? Idyllic! A hard-to-come-down-from HIGH you can’t get anywhere else
Last night I got help cooking, cleaning, repotting my plants and packing for my trip! All cause I said; hey come over for dinner! magic is real
Nov 11, 2024
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I threw a dinner party last night and it was so much fun! It’s winter and it’s been pretty bleak, so I thought it be nice to have friends over. This was my first time hosting something completely solo and I thought it would be very stressful but it was smooth sailing and the night was merry and cute! For me this past year has really been about platonically putting myself out there and forging local friendships and last night felt like a cumulation of that effort :-) It wasn’t a super fancy meal, but still, very nice. It’s great to be invited but its also like sometimes you gotta make the magic happen
Feb 17, 2025
Did I need to invite six people round for dinner? Absolutely not. Was it a delight? Yes! Nothing more I love in life than feeding my friends and curating a playlist for it. Also, a customary plate of radishes non negotiable imo
May 17, 2025
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held a dinner party as an early birthday thing and it was a smash hit! it was the first one i ever held so i was worried about how my cooking skills (or lack thereof) and hostessing would go down but it was so lovely, i was so pleased!! this was the evening plan:
theme: black and red ♠️♦️
dress code: black/red, as fancy as you're feeling (not a strict code but we love a good theme)
🎲 appetiser: firebug's roulette (chicken skewers i marinated overnight; the name was just to mess with my friends, it wasn't a roulette)
🐞 cocktails: the cassette (coffee liqueur and chocolate) and the ladybug (cherry syrup, vanilla and cherry liqueur)
📼 mains: the pinochle (slow cooked shredded beef ragu with homemade hand-cut pappardelle) and admiral's chrysalis (veggie option; the same thing but with pesto instead of ragu)
🍒 dessert: the ebony way (yes that is a reference to exactly what you think it is; chocolate cake pops served with a cherry on top)
🎴 game: instead of place cards, every plate had a randomly drawn tarot card. your rank would dictate and odd rule you had to abide by for the evening, and if anyone figured out what it is, they'd win points and you'd lose them. plus points for successfully throwing someone off!
i wasn't expecting it to go as good as it did - my cooking skills are teetering on a hope and a prayer as is, but i got lucky! people loved the starters (i had to experiment with whether to air fry them or pan fry them, and in the end i had to tweak the seasoning to get them to be as moist and flavourful in the middle as i wanted) and while the pasta was a little wonky and thicker than it should have been, it was still tasty. the ragu was an absolute highlight. honestly i think it's the best thing i've ever cooked - so rich and wonderful and hgggg. smelled amazing too. the dessert was fairly low effort but the cake pops were moist and tasty, and while i'd come up with the game a little on the fly an hour before people showed up, it ended up being a lot of fun! playlist went down a treat too, which is always a bonus. and some of the outfits people rcoked up in were ???? so cool?? omg.
but yeah, long story short, i had an amazing time!! if anyone's hungering for a good ragu recipe lmk and i'll send you the link 🙏
May 22, 2025
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Can’t stop saying things like ““ordering an americano and a chocolatine for breakfast”” ““”washing your hands”“” ”””opting to not wear a scarf today because it’s 2 degrees””” to myself
I swear it’s like a CBT technique but better
Feb 1, 2024
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The white haired man reading tomes on my bus, where do you go once you get into the metro station?
Do you too see our friend with the scraggly beard in the Russian hat and floor length trench coat?
the Father and I get off at the same stop, but the daughter stays on after muttering over a response to an “i love you” she probably gets daily
Jan 24, 2024
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By heart - that’s to know it with your heart
Poems, monologues, songs, prayers; i Can call them up at any time and be kept company by friends with Greater Minds than me
Jan 28, 2024