donāt be fooled by ābrand nameā schools. avoid as much debt as possible.
its important to try new things but remember youāre there to get a job after 4 years. donāt dillydally too much because you need to be employable.
sorry its the harsh reality these days /:
Oct 31, 2024
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I worked full time for 2 years before i went to university, when at university i also had a student loan, which i'm paying back now. I saw numerous people who i went to university with drop out or become severely depressed due to financial struggle - DO NOT TAKE IT LIGHTLY, if you cannot afford it, figure it out before you commit to it.
As for where to go, look for places that are the best for your area of study AND for the quality of life in that area. I went to a university which was amazing for my field of study but beyond abysmal for everyday life. It made my 3 years very boring and tedious.
And finally, have fun. It's your first time living, take risks, try new things and talk to new people. It's all scary but then again, what isn't :)
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iām not in grad school/havenāt applied for other reasons, but a big piece of advice my v wise mentor/professor in college about grad school was that she really stressed not going into debt for grad school, especially in todayās world and job market. so even if you arenāt sure youād 100% āuseā it, if itās with scholarships and a fellowship so you graduate debt-free, worry less. on the other hand, even if youāre very sure you would āuseā it but youād have to go into debt seriously ask yourself if itās that worth it.
if you only want a masterās (in the US), there are not always as many fellowships / assistantships for masterās students so go for a PhD program with a āterminal masterāsā so you can do two years, decide if you like it, and if you donāt you still get a masterās at the two year mark (this was also advice i received). my obvious caveat is that iām not in grad school (yet?) but iād literally trust this professor with my life so i trust that this advice is sage enough to pass on!
Oct 18, 2024
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Even if you study the statistically highest earning major, that doesnāt guarantee you a job. Unless youāre going for something ultra specific, most jobs just want to see that you have the guts to finish a degree, it doesnāt matter so much what it is. If you have a passion, follow it! Itāll make your time in school that much more enjoyable.
I started college majoring in materials sciences and engineering at a big ten school bc math was my best subject but I was miserableeeee. I thought I had to do the hardest degree possible to be successful in life and I come from a long line of engineers. Now, I feel like Iām following some sort of calling studying apparel at a tech school. Even though itās not as promising statistically. Weāre all gonna die someday anyway.
Also!!! I majorly recommend taking a gap year. That year of real life outside of an academic setting can really sheepdog your priorities.
Feb 28, 2025
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Oct 24, 2024
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