This may not at all fit your particular situation. Are you employed? A freelancer? Something else? Do you have a boss or clients? Those are all factors to consider. One path forward is to reframe to make your labor the reward: the work that you do, not the feedback or recognition from others, is where you draw your satisfaction. Disconnect any sense of self-worth from the work that you do. When your work is not appreciated, that has no bearing on your value and identity. You are not what others say or don't say about your work. Consider creating things for yourself only. (In addition to the things created in the work and income and project space.) Develop the practice using your gifts to delight yourself, you'll become less needful and attached to feedback from others.
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Keep creating in silence. Become delusional with your own self talk. Make your work only for you and then bring it to the world with your voice, not the words you‘ve heard others say about your work. It’s tough but necessary if you are serious about becoming the poet, artist, writer you truly are.
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