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how does one stop feeling so lonely after moving back home from college early to take a gap year
i’m struggling
Oct 19, 2024
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This is not even really an anti-rec, because I have good friends whom I love dearly and a roommate I get on with very well. And I go out and see my people and I like my coworkers and the kids I work with and smile at the people on the street and try to be kind to the bus drivers and cashiers, so it's always interesting that I end up feeling this way.
There's so many people out here and yet so many of us end up feeling lonely. It's such a strange paradox. Like what are you yearning for my little heart?
May 6, 2025
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Warning pointless rant to the internet void:
Ever since moving to college I don’t have my friends I did in highschool that mattered so much to me. It has been really hard to find people who want to actually stick with me through everything, do things with me, and hear what I have to say. I honestly always feel like a last resort here. Everyone will casually cancel plans or flake or ghost and I’m tired of it.
Apr 17, 2025
Since some big life changes that have left me feeling incredibly alone. I’ve had time to reflect on it and I wanted to share what has helped me so far..
1. loneliness, in its solitude, is an emotion, a way in which we feel. I’ve found it so difficult to stop thinking ‘I have no one and I am alone’. but try to replace it with ‘I am feeling lonely right now, how can I stop this?’ Everything is temporary, including this feeling.
2. Find autonomy with your time. When I became lonely I soon became depressed. A vicious cycle of feeling lonely but only refining yourself to your bed and room. You don’t need to do things with people to help this feeling. Just do the thing! find hobbies and activities that you enjoy first. It gives you more autonomy and confidence.
3. You probably don’t need that person that you think will ‘fix’ the problem. How you feel should not be dependent on anyone but yourself.
Any other tips? I still feel like shit. It’s just some realisations I’ve had.
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