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subverting binary thinking and cherishing the yin and yang of life is so much sexier than believing that opposing things can only exist to combat each other
Sep 27, 2024
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☯️accept that nothing is perfect, it’s normal to feel more than one emotion at the same time. in the end everything comes back to balance. opposites define each other. don’t live in either extreme. keep that seesaw going up and down.
Dec 1, 2023
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🪢i lost a friend and witnessed another get married this past weekend. it’s made me realize how many important things i’ll miss in life while living it to the fullest.
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🗺By far one of the most transformative skills I’ve learned and am learning. Too often we‘re trying persuade someone to be more like us, or we’re hiding our true feelings to fit in with someone else, but not everything in life requires compromise or consensus. Sometimes you can simply say, “Oh, you want something different? I hope you enjoy that! I’m going to do something else over here.”
You can be different, have different perspectives, make different choices, and it doesn’t mean you can’t be friends, lovers, or partners. It just means you’re individuals!
Only by finding the borders of our differences is intimacy truly possible. Then I know where I begin and you end. Then our compatibility isn’t based on sameness but the skillfulness by which we can honor each other’s unique selves.
You can be different, have different perspectives, make different choices, and it doesn’t mean you can’t be friends, lovers, or partners. It just means you’re individuals!
Only by finding the borders of our differences is intimacy truly possible. Then I know where I begin and you end. Then our compatibility isn’t based on sameness but the skillfulness by which we can honor each other’s unique selves.
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