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Asking for what you want
Mar 4, 2024
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for some reason I have gone most of my life acting like I’m the only person on earth who’s not allowed to ask for help… and also feeling evil whenever I ask someone to do/not do something…. and lately I’m realizing that actually it’s okay if I ask. Most people are cool and will say “yes no problem”
Mar 24, 2025
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This is one that I am still relearning everyday. It's always been rather dificult for me to ask for what I want, or even need. Not sure when or why this pattern started but it became glaringly obvious to me as I matured that the strongest tool I have in my arsenal is self advocacy. I realized that if you aren't willing to speak up for yourself and fight for yourself then that makes it all the more difficult for others to help you because NO ONE KNOWS WHAT YOU WANT UNLESS YOU TELL THEM FIRST. Slowly shedding the fear around being heard and seen has drastically changed my life for the better. My biggest resolution this year was to stop being so scared of everything and that incudes asking for what I want or even what I know I deserve. It's definitely a journey, and something that I need to work on/relearn everyday but everyday is getting easier and better.
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If you talk about people with people, youll grow to hate them.
If you talk about people with God, you cant help but love them
Dec 10, 2023
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no haha. I quit my job and just decided i didnt want to work! Anyways. Im going to the gym.
Dec 10, 2023
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Get instant espresso, Cafe Bustelo. Glass Jar. Single coffee mug- the only one you own (its all you need.)
One teaspoon. Two. Three. Free pour.
Cane sugar- Trader Joe's, you spoke your way into a 20% discount.
Whole milk. I heard an ounce is a second. One. Two. Three. Free pour.
Ill take another round. Ill have what he's having (as I point to myself in a mirror.)
Sep 18, 2024