It is very easy to get in your own head when you want to try something new, or you want to change something in your life. Sometimes the biggest obstacle to doing something is the belief that you aren't allowed to do or be something outside of peoples expectations. Whether its a little thing like getting something different than your usual at a cafe, or something big like changing careers, you need to stop obsessing over invisible rules and expectations and just do it. You're freer than you think you are.
Aug 28, 2024
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A constant trap that I am breaking free of
Feb 16, 2025
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Honestly the best way to reinvent yourself is just to live. Being in a new place with new people will expose you to so many amazing things you never would have been aware off if you stayed at home.
Big tip is to just try things, figure out what you like without the pressure of feeling like you have to keep up a performance! try new outfit styles, new hair do, new clubs and hobbies just get out there and experience everything!
Itβs freeing I can promise you. Slightly scary at times but the best thing I was ever told was feel the fear and do it anyway.
Apr 18, 2024
Jan 25, 2024
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Whether you need inspo, are curious about the discourse over the last few decades, want to get into a new hobby or whatever else, you can download open source magazine issues from decades past. They have magazines from as early as the early 1900s too! I have been obsessed with old video games lately so I have been looking at the old club nintendo magazines and it has been so fun. Like look at some of the covers these magazines used to have
Aug 7, 2024
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There is something about seeing someone be unconscious about something that they really love. The sincerity of it, the way they forget to be quiet if its in public, the way they gesture with their hands more. Its great 10/10 would recommend being passionate about your interests!
Jul 10, 2024
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It means my little cabbage in French and I just find it so cute and precious.
Jul 6, 2024