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because if i am accepting less than what i deserve or self-sabotaging or freaking out over nothing i will always want someone who loves me to tell me that
Aug 22, 2024
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Omg I’m so annoying sometimes bless the ones that love me
Feb 20, 2025
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Something that helps me a lot is reminding myself that we all tend to evaluate our own actions under a microscopic lens, observing problems that others would never pick up on because they’re not looking at us that closely. We tend to be much more critical of our own actions than those of others. And everyone does it! So reminding myself of this fact helps prevent me from spiraling.
ALSO: It can be very helpful to bring up a concern about something you did or said to a friend who was present at the time. 9/10 times they will tell you they hardly noticed it (if at all) and that it did not come off the way you feared. True friends will always accept you as you are and, as much as your anxiety brain would have you think otherwise, do not secretly hate you or think you’re lame!
Feb 4, 2025
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can be emotionally laborious but it is almost always worth it imo. telling someone how they made you feel is an act of kindness both to yourself and to the person who made you feel shitty. people will often surprise you with their responses
Feb 17, 2024
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Incredibly chic
Mar 5, 2025
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they’re all dressed up doing a very exaggerated gender performance where they walk the runway and pose and also hand-to-hand combat is homoerotic
Apr 24, 2024
Including anime girl, Polaroid of dog, Popeye’s receipt, Publix raincheck, and Disney annual pass car magnet
Mar 5, 2025