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I never want to hear anyone (or myself) think they're unlovable!!
Its literally just waiting for someone to acknowledge how incredible someone is while they've been doing it themselves the entire time (and let me tell u: hyping urself up all ur life gets very exhausting ππ)
Aug 22, 2024
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Note to self: stop being your worst critic, you are amazing!!!!
Ins: Self Love
Outs: Self Slander
Apr 19, 2024
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Something that helps me a lot is reminding myself that we all tend to evaluate our own actions under a microscopic lens, observing problems that others would never pick up on because theyβre not looking at us that closely. We tend to be much more critical of our own actions than those of others. And everyone does it! So reminding myself of this fact helps prevent me from spiraling.
ALSO: It can be very helpful to bring up a concern about something you did or said to a friend who was present at the time. 9/10 times they will tell you they hardly noticed it (if at all) and that it did not come off the way you feared. True friends will always accept you as you are and, as much as your anxiety brain would have you think otherwise, do not secretly hate you or think youβre lame!
Feb 4, 2025
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I notice it the most when people receive good things from other people. I think it's an offense, not only to yourself, but to the people who care about you as well. They have a nice image of you in their head. By saying you don't deserve it, etc., you undermine your own image and you question their perspective on you. Why wouldn't you trust them? If somebody decided to spend their money on you on a night out with nothing in exchange but company, wouldn't that be nice? The thought that you went out that day and that was enough justification for someone to deem you worthy of a nice meal. You were you and that's all it mattered.
Some may think it's narcissistic to think this way, or some may think I'm attaching the value people have of themselves to other people. I think it's about finding a balance. The value in the every day, hence the people surrounding you. Then again, if their heads went straight to these negative thoughts, they're probably self-deprecating themselves. Why would I trust that?
Give yourself the grace you deserve by honoring the people who love you most.
Oct 22, 2024
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I finally started a new job I've been wanting to for months, and I have been there for a week
And I had a big breakthrough and I feel so good and so successful, I'm on cloud 9 and now I want to go into a coma all weekend and sleep bc I'm tired af LMAOOOOO
I'm so so proud of myself
Jul 13, 2024
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All u can do in this crazy world is match ur own freak
Tonight i match my own freak
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Even tho I've started wearing blush (I love my reds, pinks, and oranges π€), I am always caught with some purple/green/pink eyeshadow and a nude lippie π€ͺ
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