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reading a new friends substack and resonating so hard with her post about working to overcome her social anxiety, introversion, and shame to become more comfortable and outgoing. not only did this inspire me that i need to pick up my own substack again, but also that becoming less of a weirdo in social settings is possible for me too 🤞🏼

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also just entered the substack community recently and now i have a new digital diary for dumping my reckless thoughts
Jul 5, 2024
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need to read this substack....
Jul 4, 2024
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crumbmode ivyduerr.substack.com
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normieexgirlfriend 🫶🫶🫶
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normieexgirlfriend came here for this!!
Jul 12, 2024

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i love reading through everyone’s stream of consciousness! it‘s old-school blogging before social media became hyper-focused on trying to sell you shit.
i will create one once i get over my personal hang ups and embarrassment…
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just posted on substack about how its embarrassing to be insecure, i imagine it’d be enjoyable if you enjoy reading abt people who have rlly strong opinions @ aideensheedy on there
Jul 7, 2025
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Whenever I feel especially overwhelmed, I have to write my feelings out, usually on Substack. I hardly ever post on Substack, but I want to try to post more and be less hard on myself when I'm writing for fun.
May 13, 2025

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easy: delete the apps, stop dating, consider the things you find interesting/attractive in others and just do those things yourself, hangout with friends, read a book, take a class, take a walk, drink some coffee, drink some water, visit the beach, visit a museum, go to the movies, go to the club, go to bed.
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bars: * rainbo club * california clipper * inner town pub * sleeping village * best intentions * the hi-lo * easy does it * outside voices * the owl (but only after the 2am bars close) pizza: * pequods * malnati’s (deep dish is a myth and no chicagoan actually eats that) breakfast: * lula cafe *flying saucer * middlebrow (also for lunch or dinner) * allez cafe * kasama
lunch/dinner: * 90 miles cuban cafe * club lucky * rootstock * all together now * yours truly * elske (fancy, michelin star)
i prob have more but i haven’t lived there in 3 years (plus 2 years of covid) so i haven’t experienced chicago in its full glory since 2019 🥲
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(except for me, tell me everything)
tired of all your favorite spots getting overrun and unaffordable? the answer is simple: stop telling random ass people about them, and absolutely, under no circumstances, should you make a damn tiktok about it.
xx