I'm not always good at this. And sometimes it feels so administrative. But, getting a plan on the calendar makes sure that I can prioritize everyone in my life in the way I want, and that feels good. No more planning the weekend on Friday afternoon.
Pick a night to see your friend or friends and just do it every week. Id be nothing without my Monday evening hang. It’s not even a convenient time and often I’m too tired. We go anyway bc we want to hang out and that’s the time we set. Necessary hack for adult friendships
I am by no means traditionally religious, but I fully understand how being in the presence of beautiful stained glass can feel like being with god. ALWAYS stop off at a church on the way if you think it might have good stained glass. The bluebells in the bottom right corner of this made me loose my breath for a moment.