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I'm not always good at this. And sometimes it feels so administrative. But, getting a plan on the calendar makes sure that I can prioritize everyone in my life in the way I want, and that feels good. No more planning the weekend on Friday afternoon.
Jan 26, 2024
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As a chronic planner who needs to have things laid out AT LEAST a week beforehand, sometimes you need to let go of scheduling and say yes to going out and hanging with friends.
Jun 23, 2024
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Schedule them! Schedule them! Life gets busy and youโll never find time if you donโt schedule them!
Jun 13, 2024
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I joke with my friends that we have quarterly or biannual meetings because the calendars really do get full. Whether it's work, life admin, housework... Give me at least a day's notice but ideally 4 weeks notice and that means I can literally arrange my life to meet with just you on a precious day off ๐ซถ
I also don't live close to any of my friends, so the preparation is so necessary. I have days blocked out in October and November, for real.
May 15, 2025
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My friend and I happened upon this. Meaning, strive to live your life in a way that makes you feel hot. Dress to feel hot. Talk to feel hot. Do whatever you do, but in a way that makes you feel like you're worthy of the love and adoration and crushes and desire you deserve. This does not mean "sexy" necessarily--hotness is always shifting and has many forms. But reach deep inside and you'll find that your own personal method and mode of hotness can always, and most of the time is, an excellent guide.
Jun 8, 2024
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tough but worth it
Feb 25, 2025
Kind of a genre of medieval paintings, but confirms to me how horny people have always been and how we've always had to sublimate our desires into the dominant culture. It's so weirdly explicit and bizarre, and has so many layers in how it would have been used: a painting to look at, a page in a prayer book to speak as a script, a physical object to touch and venerate and meditate with.... like imagine people fingering this "wound" and being like, yes this is honestly totally about jesus. Crazy.
Aug 2, 2024