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May 3, 2024
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taterhole I feel like this quizzle is a little tough though, like it feels like it could be skewed. I canāt quite place it but likeā¦even my score feels off. Because yes, sure, objectively I can be easy to get along with but I also feel like Iāve spent time being selective with who I spend time with, so itās like Iām definitely easy with a specific type of person but Iām positive another type of person probably hates me, hahaha.
Like ok I wonāt argue with someone unless Iām really close to them because I know I can be a bit much, so I donāt argue often and I wonāt argue with just anyone. But people close to me know itās a pain to engage in a disagreement. Or like I wonāt always object to someoneās elseās take when they share it, which seems polite!ā¦but itās often rooted in a āIām not going to waste time with someone thatās foolishā which comes off dismissive? Like Iāll engage if I feel like the person is capable of having a civil discussion, otherwise I just nod and walk away. So I feel like on the surface it seems nice, but in actuality itās like if I just nod at your take it very well could mean I think your opinion is silly / uneducated / not worth the effort.
Soā¦like yeah IDK! Even taking the test I genuinely answers honestly. But there are other questions I think could uncover some inner hidden variables. I guess the best example I can give that might make it make sense is that I donāt argue with people who like certain clothing trends or brands. I donāt think that Iām better than them at all for their takes. At the same time, I feel like opinions are weighted and if theyāre only wearing certain brands / whatever is trending, I assume their personal style is non-existent, and if thatās the case I wonāt engage with them deeper. It isnātā¦dismissive? And Iām not making a judgement call on them as a person? But Iām also just accepting that maybe Iām too deep into the clothing hole and understand that to even start a conversation would be too complicated so I just donāt? Which actually seems a little rude and mean? But itās not as bad as if I did start the convo? Does any of this make sense??? Sorry for the rant
May 3, 2024
marianoleonczik no this makes sense this is why psychological evaluations for example depend so heavily on the observations of the clinician about body language and possible signs of deception etc and why itās never going to be accurate when people take online self assessments. Itās difficult to be subjective about oneās self. I guess there's also some distinction between the thoughts you have and the actions and behaviors you engage in so on that level your results make sense. itās possible that you donāt necessarily express your fullest self to everyone which imo is generally normal and most people with a modicum of social skills do this
May 3, 2024
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