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used to be insane about this to the point where I would keep everything I was going thru internal bc of fear of evil eye-and I definitely still believe in it BUT, closed mouths don’t get fed. had a weird mindset shift where I realized OH, telling friends about the fun things ive accomplished and upcoming goals has actually made my life 20x easier and opened up doors I never realized could be there, im not alone - I have people that love and care about me!! It’s still a trusted circle for me but, no more suffering in silence ;p
Apr 30, 2024

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Constantly going back and forth between “don’t jinx it” & “speak it into existence.“ A v weird tango!
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tonamiestephanie !!!yes!!! always going between those two- my mind tries to rationalize the back and forth as it not being the right time to speak sometimes
May 1, 2024
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persephones That’s a beautiful perspective, will be using in the future <3
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I actually did a self check in today! My takeaway: I have been in an extremely good place since April, and I'm the happiest I've ever been in like 5 yrs ✨ Currently, so many doors are opening for me at the same time. I would have never imagined I would be where I am right now, wasn't my plan. I know change is inevitable and necessary for growth, but man, it can be scary! I've never felt these feelings and lived these moments, and I don't know what to make of it sometimes. I get so anxious when something good happens, when will I go back to feeling horrible? How will this be ruined? I'm getting better at not thinking this way, but I have moments where I remember, yeah, I struggle with my depression/anxiety immensely, but what's the point of anticipating its comeback? I've done so much work this past year and have learned to love myself and be my own bff <3 But I still feel lonely at times. I have amazing friends/fam and fill my days with things that bring me joy but at the end of the day it is just me, myself, and I. Days like these I wish I could share my life with someone else. But that's not the case... so why feed into it.... I love life and I love feeling sad temporarily. Its all gonna work out, no need to stress
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In the past 6-8 months, I was able to discover a new but “true” side of me by moving out of my hometown and being by myself. I saw other ppl who inspired me to get more creative around things like my style, or how I carry myself. There comes a point where you‘ll feel incredibly comfortable in your shell once you analyze what you actually like and what is just an influence of the ppl around you.
U don’t have to move out for that btw but it helped me more than anything else
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if i am presented with an intrusive thought about ppl who do not like me for my past mistakes (they're probably not thinking about me key word intrusive) i shift my focus onto my friends who love me for who i have grown into (less unhinged) it is freeing 🕊️
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