i think lots of ppl who tend to be avoided by strangers and acquaintances feel pointless guilt about this
but its usually not ur fault and even it it is that's fine bc its not ur job to make people fw u
You think youre doing it to be considerate, to not be offensive— but you might not be as good at guessing what people need as you think. If someone wants something, they’ll tell you. It’s ok to live life for yourself sometimes!!