You think youre doing it to be considerate, to not be offensiveā but you might not be as good at guessing what people need as you think. If someone wants something, theyāll tell you. Itās ok to live life for yourself sometimes!!
coming to terms a little bit with the fact that i rarely do anything for other people, good and bad sides. i donāt really care what other people think of me and i donāt need validation on the good side. on the bad side i usually help other people because i wouldnāt respect myself if i didnāt. it feels wrong and self interested but maybe thatās an impossible standard. who knows?
People are so obsessed with fame- but being looked at by strangers all the time is not what its cracked up to be. move to the woods, eat a sandwich, be at peace with yourself
