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to be completely honest i struggle a lot with rlly bad social anxiety and not feeling like i have anything worthy to say lol and i want to try to beat it all and i'm giving it a try by answering asks here n possibly engaging with people ( scary :0 ) and maybe genuinely saying something helpful once we'll see
and i like the anonymity! i don't think it's that widely-used of a website and it just feels safe unlike other social medias do for me haha
i'm a tumblr girlie and this reminds me of it in certain ways! cutesy and the people seem nice
as for why any of us are here at all... me personally, i was put on this earth to listen to music while riding the bus and drinking a smoothie... don't know bout the rest of y'all...
Apr 18, 2024
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🍀i'm new!! hi!! stumbled on here after seeing someone on twitter mention this in passing!! this is a very lovely place. everything has been so cruel and hateful and mean lately. you'd think given how hard life already is, warm and kind spaces like this would be more common. oh well. it does make things feel more special :)
i'm very shy, and honestly, nothing cool goes on in my life so i doubt i'd be able to rec interesting things. after struggling with my younger years, i feel like i'm only now starting to find the things i like and catching up with everyone else :o especially in terms of art and books and film and games and... everything!! this is kind of embarrassing to admit (it's okay though because anonymity is awesome), but i am only now forming a personality!! it's nice to be here though. very good vibes. lurking here is just as great because it doesn't feel like "doomscrolling"
nice to meet you all!! hello!!
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📉idk i’m tryna keep this one for me. i’m in a period where almost everything is up the air: my job, my finances, my city, the fucking state of the world; more than usual, i’m feeling out of my body.
i read an article (watched a tiktok) that said that ~creative people~ without an outlet are almost always the most insufferable people you know; and honey, i’ve been insufferable for a while now. it sounds wankery, but maybe posting here (where no one else is) reminds me of the things that ground me: (1) curation of the things i like, and (2) and the development and continuation of personal aesthetic for aesthetic’s sake.
anyway, i hope posting things i like on this silly website/blog/(anti) social media platform does the trick - it’s almost foolish to ask any form of external thing to fix me, but hey, let’s see if this new outlet can at least soothe some symptoms <3
i read an article (watched a tiktok) that said that ~creative people~ without an outlet are almost always the most insufferable people you know; and honey, i’ve been insufferable for a while now. it sounds wankery, but maybe posting here (where no one else is) reminds me of the things that ground me: (1) curation of the things i like, and (2) and the development and continuation of personal aesthetic for aesthetic’s sake.
anyway, i hope posting things i like on this silly website/blog/(anti) social media platform does the trick - it’s almost foolish to ask any form of external thing to fix me, but hey, let’s see if this new outlet can at least soothe some symptoms <3
Jun 25, 2025
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🥸What I like about this app is no one here knows me and I don’t know any of you. Posting and reading here feels like ye olde Xanga or early tumblr in the best way. No real world connections, just being real af 😎
Feb 16, 2024
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💤i loveee early mornings, 5/6 AM, taking a shower starting your day early, too bad i'm the sleepiest person alive and never get to experience them :s
3/4 AM when you're sitting with your friend on the balcony sobering up, smoking cigarettes, drinking coffee, sharing stories and gossip and laughing your asses off over dumb jokes you won't remember later
6-9PM BUT ONLY in summertime when the sun has set and it's not hot anymore but it's still light outside and you're talking a walk and life is beautiful and worth living and ahh *chef's kiss*
10PM when the day is done and everyone's gone to sleep and you have no work to do so you can just do your thing in your room watch a movie snug as a bug y'know the drill :3
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🛌loveee love this genre called "slowcore", it's a genre of indie rock that sounds really quiet and melancholic and just overall feels like lullaby, if that's what you're into :] never fails w me, i love feeling like i'm being sung to sleep lol, also focusing on all the sounds and lyrics can help with falling asleep for me!
bands like red house painters, duster, galaxie 500, eiafuawn, tram... i have many
also ambient music! i love the band grouper, there's this song "litte gray cat" and i think it did its job even when i wasn't feeling tired at all haha
Buut if you don't want music, you can watch interesting livestreams on twitch or letsplays, a true crime documentary(if not disturbing while trying to sleep haha), any other documentary or commentary video, whatever's long enough !