In: rollerblading / making hooch / putting on a play with your friends / bikini top as a shirt / scene hair / swing sets / crying in a cathartic way / Noise music in a girly way / Home Depot / tearing things apart to build them back better / balloons / chunky rings / hot dogs Out: nicotine / love triangles / shoes that pinch your toes / rotting / observing the world without also absorbing it / being a hater / cheap wine / parties centered around alcohol / impossible burgers / stoicism / complex skincare / emails
sofe That would honestly be SO kind, but if I'm being entirely honest I've hit that threshold in life where I do a cost benefit analysis of whether or not I'm competent enough to make it in a timely manner (and have it be drinkable) and unfortunately I feel like I'll fail in this area.
lucius CRAZY THAT YOU'D BE SCARED OF THE FED / STATE LAWS. Just put it in a little container and if they ask if you're shipping liquids lie and say no. (Also no I'm very pro-rules so I can't even pretend I'd enjoy breaking the laws)
marianoleonczik honestly it is pretty easy.… i made a new rec of my recipe so if you ever find yourself having some time I’d say try it out. It really only takes an hour or two
IN: beach days / comfy in roller skates / camping / braids / beading / star gazing / lil naps / 5ks / barefoot shoes / audiobooks / silly goosin’ / OUT: fast food / binging shows / not taking up space / doing too much / reg soda / anger / skipping breaks /
IN
-creativity
-chai-der
-routines
-movement breaks
-cultivating wonder
-community organizing
-live theater
-budgeting
-making strange acquaintances
-picking up interesting rocks
-introspection
-having a laugh with friends
-baths
-the elderly OUT
-looksmaxxing
-directing self-hatred outward
-people-pleasing
-remembering past G.P.A.s
-curated vintage t-shirts
-booktok
-using therapy speak to gossip
-identical bridesmaid dresses
-listening to playlists for nostalgia purposes
-intermittent fasting
-playing things by ear take note: more things are in than out!
not finished…
ins ~
• personal style
• being upfront
• live music
• physical media
• crafts/personalizing everything
• trusting your intuition
• blue eyeshadow (in a 1960s way)
• niche playlists
• talking to strangers
• pocket-sized notebooks
• pattern mixing
• spontaneous trips
• messy hair
• doing it for the memoir outs ~
• being late
• black and white mentality
• being embarrassed
• oversharing
• toxic friendships
• diet soda
• vaping
• impulsive shopping
• dating apps
• letting myself spiral
• doing it for the plot
• fear of being perceived
Gazpacho only in the late summer, persimmons only in the winter, etc. just because we can import anything from anywhere anytime doesn’t mean we should. Nothing is special if you can have it whenever you want it.