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on the same note with concerts: being in the pit actually sucked for me, i was more focused on not getting my hair pulled and being able to breathe than enjoying the show, and i couldnāt see anything due to the height of the stage. ended up having the best time from the sidelinesĀ
anyway, overrated: losing virginityĀ
underrated: starting over. iāve had to start over again a couple of times (finishing uni, quitting jobs, changing career paths, etc.), itās been scary but exciting and worth it so far
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still in college right now. i grew up with parents i felt were pretty strict so being able to move away was good and bad. with such a new sense of freedom i kind of lost it and partied more than i could handle. my grades took a tumble, but i was the happiest i had ever been. obviously, my parents were not happy with that and i really had lock in on academics. although this new party lifestyle kind of caused a unnecessary amount of stress, i wouldn't change how i handled this at all. through this whirlwind of nights out, i met my closest friends and really discovered myself. my university has a large music scene and most of the parties i went to were also house shows. while i have severely grown out of the crazy partying, i still end up at these functions as a photographer for the artists or clubs throwing the events! i wouldn't have discovered my passion for photography without exploring the music scene the way when i first got here.
Jan 21, 2025
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i decided to go back even though i had no money, and felt like "it was too late for me" (im literally only 26), and i am still living with my parents
but thanks to deciding to go, i am now graduating at the end of this month, i have a job lined up after and my creativity and confidence has NEVER been as high as it is rn (not even when i was in HS tbh)
best biggest decision ever
that and deciding to go swimming in a under ground river knowing i have claustrophobia- i showed my man i was basically fearless that day and i am now the alpha
Jun 19, 2024
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getting back into shit i liked in high school (dumb youtube, goth music, crazy outfits) and i feel fucking awesome
Jan 24, 2024
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my personal mantra is āif everythingās cringe, nothingās cringeā and it sounds so silly but it really has helped me. also i spent my teenage years burying myself under 16 layers of irony, so now anything i do out of genuine interest and curiosity feels like taking a breath of fresh air cuz i donāt have to justify it with pretentious or apathetic attitudes, it is so freeing
Apr 17, 2024
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probably not the pinnacle of healthy recs but i needed to quit soda and spicy water has helped immensely. some meals just canāt be had with plain water.
Apr 17, 2024
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Drew and Enya babbling about nothing and everything has changed the chemistry of my brain forever through unhinged podcast episodes that either feel like staying up late at a sleep over with friends or like fever dreams no in-betweenā¦ but they do have shorter content as well on their individual channels
Apr 17, 2024