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💘different people have different preferences! so I don’t think there is a recipe out there that I can link you on what to become and how to act in order to attract love in your life
however, if you’d like to make changes, I can only advise working on your confidence! there is nothing more attractive than being truthful about yourself and confident in your truth. this also helps open a lot of doors in other areas in your life
still, I’m aware that this is a learned skill based on life experience… but as someone who‘s almost 29 and has various dating dynamics behind her, I wish I had adopted the cheesy “just be yourself!” phrase much earlier bc being yourself = less second guessing = less heartache along the way
however, if you’d like to make changes, I can only advise working on your confidence! there is nothing more attractive than being truthful about yourself and confident in your truth. this also helps open a lot of doors in other areas in your life
still, I’m aware that this is a learned skill based on life experience… but as someone who‘s almost 29 and has various dating dynamics behind her, I wish I had adopted the cheesy “just be yourself!” phrase much earlier bc being yourself = less second guessing = less heartache along the way
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🪩1. just don't accept the invitation. (I used to be a person who flaked almost every time. now I just don't go to things I know I won't enjoy)
2. get your bloodwork done (I put it off, now it bites me in the ass)
3. you don't have to say "sorry" as a sentence opener & you don't have to start your question with "sorry can I ask a question?" just ask. you won't come off as cocky just as confident.
4. buy it if you've been thinking about it for two weeks minimum (even better if it's been month or more)
5. sincerity, vulnerability and curiousity make life interesting. shame, embarassment and awkwardness make life miserable.
6. guilt and pleasure don't go together.
7. nature, man. touch grass, eat fruit.
8. hating someone or something is okay.
9. actually, you're not the person you are at 4 p.m. on a monday. you're the person you are at 3 a.m. on a friday.
10. don't judge. ever. like ever. absolutely never.
May 20, 2024
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My dad teases me about how when I was a little kid, my favorite thing to do when I was on the landline phone with somebody—be it a relative or one of my best friends—was to breathlessly describe the things that were in my bedroom so that they could have a mental picture of everything I loved and chose to surround myself with, and where I sat at that moment in time. Perfectly Imperfect reminds me of that so thanks for always listening and for sharing with me too 💌
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