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different people have different preferences! so I don’t think there is a recipe out there that I can link you on what to become and how to act in order to attract love in your life
however, if you’d like to make changes, I can only advise working on your confidence! there is nothing more attractive than being truthful about yourself and confident in your truth. this also helps open a lot of doors in other areas in your life
still, I’m aware that this is a learned skill based on life experience… but as someone who‘s almost 29 and has various dating dynamics behind her, I wish I had adopted the cheesy “just be yourself!” phrase much earlier bc being yourself = less second guessing = less heartache along the way
however, if you’d like to make changes, I can only advise working on your confidence! there is nothing more attractive than being truthful about yourself and confident in your truth. this also helps open a lot of doors in other areas in your life
still, I’m aware that this is a learned skill based on life experience… but as someone who‘s almost 29 and has various dating dynamics behind her, I wish I had adopted the cheesy “just be yourself!” phrase much earlier bc being yourself = less second guessing = less heartache along the way
Apr 10, 2025
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because wanting to be liked by everyone ALL THE TIME is far too exhausting and never worth it.
“just be yourself” is probably the most basic piece of advice ever given and yet somehow it’s taken me 24 years of my life to finally start considering it. funny how life works!
“just be yourself” is probably the most basic piece of advice ever given and yet somehow it’s taken me 24 years of my life to finally start considering it. funny how life works!
May 16, 2025
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⭐Super cliched, but you should lean into who you are rather than moulding yourself for someone else, you're beautiful as you are. plus in the long run, you'll be surrounded by people who genuinely like your energy and hanging out with you and that's the whole point.
May 2, 2025
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😃It’s so cliche, i know. But just be your authentic self and trust in your experience and skills. If you do this and they don’t want you then the fit was never there and that is completely okay. it’s kinda like dating in a weird way. Also, you’re interviewing them as much as they’re interviewing you — you have just as much power. You’ll be fine!!!!
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I keep running to work or running home from work, and these days I’ve been trying to slow down a bit and connect some more with the world around me. I started petting these stray kitties that live near my house. I wonder if we can become friends!
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lately I’ve been into taking pics during the day and compiling them all onto one photo to capture its vibe
like my morning coffee, a meal, or a cute cat I’ve been petting on the corner of a street
graffitis help to visually strengthen things but sometimes I just incorporate some graphic elements I find online
also, I’m obsessed with archiving interesting amateur posters, especially ones about lost pets
while one can provide unique graphic and text choices, the other can invoke really emotional responses from me
love a one glance story
like my morning coffee, a meal, or a cute cat I’ve been petting on the corner of a street
graffitis help to visually strengthen things but sometimes I just incorporate some graphic elements I find online
also, I’m obsessed with archiving interesting amateur posters, especially ones about lost pets
while one can provide unique graphic and text choices, the other can invoke really emotional responses from me
love a one glance story