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Letting go

Holding on to: old habits, bad relationships, cynicism, clothes you haven’t worn in a long time, anxiety/resistance during a psychedelic trip, resistance to change, resistance to desire, shame, something you‘ve been worrying about, something that makes your shoulders tight, being a mentor, being a parent, being a hoarder, being a hater. Just trust yourself (or the other person) and know that if you let go it will be alright, probably even great. (I’ve had an amazing day)

@Shadowbeni

Apr 20, 2024

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Relinquishing Control and letting go

I have really delayed so much of my healing by clinging to certain people or ideas, forgetting that life doesn’t often turn out the way that you imagine. (It can be better than you imagine if you simply let it happen!!) I have been living my life in devotion to “what-ifs” and half baked desires instead of just enjoying who I am, what I have and what’s in front of me. No more of that!!! What good can come out of forcing it? I’m trying to go with the flow and give myself permission to change and accept the change around me and be happy.

@lndsy

Oct 24, 2024

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letting go and moving on

it usually takes a hell of a long time but when you do arrive at that place, it feels miraculous.

@sophiebee

Jan 10, 2025

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A think piece on why we need to stop asking “what do you do for work?”

“self-worth becomes a hostage to professional accolades and achievement” … “Focusing on someone outside their career encourages a culture where people feel valued for who they are, not just what they do” what are your thoughts? i agree to a certain extent. it depends on the delivery of the question as well. most of the time you can tell if someone is genuinely interested in who you are as a person. asking about somebody’s job can provide a lot of insight into a person’s interests and general character - i think it’s fine for your job to be an aspect of your identity. i could also tangent into why capitalism may have an influence on why this question is asked so frequently.. i do find myself struggling with gauging the intentions behind this question sometimes; which often makes me less emotionally open and usually filters a potential friendship into a professional/transactional relationship immediately.

@zi

Feb 5, 2024

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just asking for the shit you want

been doing this more in my everyday life. respectfully ofc. some things i’ve received/am receiving recently from simply asking for it 🤭: - free cocktail! - free ride (i don’t drive) - awesome music reccs - pretty styling pieces for a potential future shoot :) - the beginnings of a fun and crafty project - beautiful bloomers - new friends to hang with grateful for the people who are so giving. makes me want to pay the deed forward. and i do.

@zi

Mar 27, 2024

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movie theatres

the perfect third place. love the fun chats afterwords. nobody is really left out of conversation bc we all just experienced the exact same thing in unison. just an exchange of thoughts, feelings and ideas. also a place that kinda forces you to completely sit and focus in on what’s in front of you. something i think most of us forget to make time for.. especially if you are someone like me, always on the move and maybe always a little distracted. what movie will you be watching at the theatres next? maybe i‘ll watch it too and we can have a chat about it all on the virtual plain :)

@zi

Apr 23, 2024