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Regularly scheduled activities with your friends

tuesday night movies, friday night dinners, saturday afternoon writing workshops, mondays in the park, monthly book club. regularly scheduled hangouts with the homies are how life is meant to be lived.

@sbonifazi

3d ago

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spending a full day with friends

there’s something so satisfying about a lengthy hangout. there are so many shifts and unspoken compromises between people, roles assumed and forfeited. it’s just awesome, i love my friends.

@haydenjoy

Mar 5, 2025

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friendships based around rituals

I love basing my friendships around things I like to do, and having an allocated person to do that with, also having a process / routine that this thing happens around. Like a tiny religious procession of two. E.g. : one friend is my coffee and a walk friend, another is a person I only exclusively hang out with to eat tacos once a month, a third friend to only go to cinema screenings with, another friend will join me for exercise classes and we usually get dinner afterwards. I like this approach to friendship in general because it’s less pressure to have to come up with new things to do, and if you stagger time well then you always have things to do and people to see.

@agnesfarta

Aug 20, 2024

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Allowing things to have their season

Gazpacho only in the late summer, persimmons only in the winter, etc. just because we can import anything from anywhere anytime doesn’t mean we should. Nothing is special if you can have it whenever you want it.

@sofe

May 22, 2024

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Referring to activities as “playing”

Whenever my housemate Cody and I have to do home improvement we say “let’s play hammer and saw”. i love playing hammer

@sofe

Feb 8, 2024

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LOOKING AT OTHER PEOPLE’S PHONES ON THE TRAIN

What is she doing on her calculator app ?? Who is he texting ??? What are they listening to on Spotify ??? To truly be on the pulse of culture we must invade the privacy of our fellow commuters just a little bit

@sofe

May 3, 2025