im going through my makeup stash and chucking things that i don’t like anymore, and it got me thinking about my journey with wearing makeup and how it’s another “rite of passage” thing that most girls deal with. i don’t remember having blatant restrictions on makeup in my household and outside middle school no one dared to try anything. but to point i feel like yt makeup tutorials were slim pickings back in the late 2000s/early 2010s. and i didn’t really become interested until later. i did have a black eyeliner that i used for my eyebrows (which i probably shouldn’t have).
i remember asking my mom when she started wearing makeup, and she told me more or so around 16 and her dad wouldn’t allow her and her sisters to wear certain makeup looks or certain color lipsticks. she mentioned that it’s because her parents didn’t want her to look older.
i hear that statement a lot from parents who restrict makeup use, saying that “it makes you look older”. and thinking about it now, 1) that’s bs if you think that a painted face on its own makes someone look older and 2) you mean you hate that certain styles make people seem more mature in attitude, too showy, or “slutty”, and that doesn’t make sense me either.
using makeup ≠ being more mature, sexual, etc. it’s just a product, no different than a crayon in my book