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Subtle intimacies

— untangling a necklace with a needle for someone (my dad used to do this for me when I was younger, felt like such a delicate ritual) — sitting on a couch with someone (aka your current crush) and both caressing a cat that’s between you and the other person …a silent „we’re both here, coexisting, vibing„ moment — braiding someone’s hair (the gentle tug, the trust, the rhythm) — tuning a violin or a guitar (recently watched my friend do this and she was so intimate with her instrument, fine-tuning every string, taking her time… it was kinda mesmerizing) — asking someone about their perfume (I noticed you, I want to remember how you smell) — people in busy public places that close their eyes and hold still for a moment just to soak in some precious sunrays Loved this question!

@chilly_olive_heron

Jan 19, 2025

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being POSITIVE

when people ask me about my job i‘m often tempted to launch into all of my frustrations, which sometimes i do but sometimes i tell them, “it’s hard work, but i really love what i do” and it feels good to say!! i don’t have to self-flagellate for a stranger who just told me that they could “never” do what i do and make myself a martyr i’m being honest but i‘m highlighting the best parts of my job instead of highlighting the worst parts—and i find myself a lot happier when i repeat this process for all aspects of my life i love my partner, i love my pets, i love my city, i love my job. there are always things to complain about but there are also always things to celebrate

@omgitscarols

Dec 7, 2024

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build bridges

between others. it’s something i’ve always been good at and take pride in doing in the everyday. i just want to make the proverbial “it“ mean something. whether that be small, like recommending a local shop to a friend looking for something. or “big“, like referring someone to a future partner or job. it can be done with or without words, whether through advice or a simple nudge. i like to bring people together, create communities, or provide jumping off points. without sounding grandiose, i feel like my life’s work is to inspire. i think eventually i’ll settle my jittery hands on a specific craft that acts as a visual language to accomplish this, as i've always been fond of art. but, i don’t think that’s all that’s in store for me, one big grand statement. i think my impact translates into everything i pursue.

@weird

May 26, 2024

Top Recs from @annamaria

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GETTING A COFFEE FOR HERE! NEVER TO GO BABY!

Asking for a coffee for here with a real mug, sitting and chilling while you sip - no phones, no computers… (i guess this is what Europeans just do… and we should too)

@annamaria

Apr 9, 2025

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Walking around naked

like around the apartment, belly out, strutting around

@annamaria

Mar 5, 2024

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figuring things out on a white board

or your walls, i got the crayola ultra-washable markers and I treat issues in my life like im a private investigator digging into my brain for evidence

@annamaria

Mar 14, 2024