I used to have the same problem, and I was able to fix it with these two things
I think all hand cream is good, it’s more that you just reapply throughout the day, and right before bed. I keep a little tube of something at my desk, bedside, and all my bags. I like kiehls and the fenty beauty hand mask at night.
Gloves. Anytime I go outside, even if it’s sunny and not too cold, gloves. I got some lightweight windbreaker kind - linked- that don't get in the way. I swear this is the key!