I get it sometimes, but at some point especially if I’m providing, you have to be honest and a little more mature about it, you can’t have everything all the time! the enjoyment principle is actually bad sometimes!
like If you think it’s kind of weird and gross that your friend vapes all the time you should tell them to stop. I feel like families used to play this role but it got out of hand and now everybody minds their business too much. I don’t want my friends having a nic problem at 40!!