Clearing some space, drawing the blinds, putting on ur fave album, having 0 inhibitions on a tues night
Cassius 1999 is a perfect album for this (specifically feelin for you)
This will solve all of your problems, trust me
Maybe go full circle and throw a baby shower/1st bday themed party? Lots of games, primary colors, get messy (literally), ball pits, bouncy houses, dancing Elmo, etc
the humidity in the summer makes it (and the entire east cost tbh) iffy but its v gay, and decent access to greenery and healthcare! very community oriented as well so you'll find your people much easier than other big cities.