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tbf i'm still working on this but: many ppl have the tendency to like, put themselves out in the world with an attached asterisk like "oop! sorry i exist! oop! sorry if you don't like me, i'm working on being the universally beloved human object! oop!" and thusly pre-apologize for every mildly annoying or perceptually uncouth action they will ever take. none of that shit. assuming one is regular and not trying to like, destroy the lives of everyone around themselves, one does not need to constantly explain and apologize for their actions. trust people to tell you if you suck, because They Will.
same goes for art obvs. don't apologize just make it and if people think it sucks they'll tell you.
Feb 8, 2024
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probably going to need to do it heaps throughout your life, so might as well get comfortable with it early. i'm still working on this (and the ability to accept I have done something wrong without thinking it means I am terrible/unforgiveable/worthless/etc) so pls give tips if u have any
Jan 30, 2024
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not like ever, or when you truly offend someone. but in regular day to day interactions i often hear too many people that make minor mistake or lead a sentence with “sorry …“ - for some people its like a filler word. 99% of the time they did nothing wrong in the first place. stop apologizing and be you bro!
May 21, 2024
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A friend ‘belatedly’ replying to a text (who cares it’s a text!!!), a coworker reaching out for help or to ask a question, etc. stop apologizing 🫵😡
May 6, 2024
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time frame's approximate buuuut you know it when you hear it. think "poker face". there is so much space and everything's so dry... there is no lushness... the drum samples are unbelievably flat... and yet! and yet! it works so well! the economy of production makes any pop singer's vocals soar even higher than they would otherwise, and really pares the machine of a pop song down to its bare necessities... which is why i think we got so many bangers in this period. there's a lot of good stuff to get into even if it's just for nostalgia
Feb 11, 2024
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im unemployed and in art school at 30. it's never too late to not do marketing
Feb 8, 2024
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there’s just something about it !
Feb 27, 2024