most of mine fall under the golden rule, specifically:
1. always ask what kind of support a friend needs when sharing their blight, unwarranted advice can be condescending.
2. if you hold the door for me, the spot in front of me in line is yours. (this rule goes for all acts of kindness)
3. if i have it and you don’t and i can get it or make it again, it’s yours.
4. similarly, if i can make it with things i have at home, i’m not buying it.
5. always top off a friends glass before my own.
