Not really a revolutionary sentiment; this is something people talk about a lot. But it leads to people living their lives as if they’re on a stage in a literal sense where their homes become set dressing for the aspirational lifestyle they want to project with the purpose of creating monetized content that’s palatable to an audience and to advertisers. Tiktok seemed to democratize this landscape quite a bit to where people who didn’t fit the narrower expectations set on Instagram and YouTube were able to carve out niches for themselves, but these niches were still subject to specific visual languages, trends, and “rules.” And now that it’s almost certainly on death’s doorstep, it should be interesting to see how this evolves.
If you want to share your authentic life you should do it authentically—it’s scary to bravely offer yourself up in such an unfiltered way but it’s where you currently are and it’s part of your story. You may not be happy with the way your house looks now but viewers might enjoy seeing your journey of becoming and the way the space you live in evolves with that! Sometimes you don’t have to feel ready or confident enough to do something; the confidence can come with practice and familiarity. The hardest part is showing up! 💌