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(Yes, it's finally time. After 10+ years of on-and-off use, I finally left for good a few weeks ago and am here to evangelize. We need you thinking healthily. Besides, this website exists now!) ...
I get it, it used to be fun. I was there for over ten years until recently. We used to get a dish of the hottest Conversation from the most in-the-know and influential writers, thinkers, and critics. But I’m telling you that El•n has won – X.com is markedly different from Twitter; that place is gone forever and this new Thing is changing you along with it and you need to GTFO of there right now.
The default tone of ā€œdiscourseā€ on X.com has necrotized into a haughty, patronizing, and unbearable mode of unilateral Quote Tweets delivered via the For You feed – they really should just call it your trough. You inject this slop straight into your bloodstream (because it's what you've always done); it then metastasizes and destroys your very concept of what it means to engage critically with the world.
You think you know more because you're seeing more words about more things from more people that write more words about more things but really you're just getting angrier, you're just getting more used to pithy dunks and reductionism, you're just scrolling more, you're getting pumped up full of hot air and floating away from anything of real-world consequence ... rhetoric may be dead but your critical heart doesn't have to die with it.
Please leave the site. It’s no longer worth your time and you will be shocked how much more clearly you will think about the same things. After all, you care about them, don’t you? It’s not like you’ll stop thinking about them.
Jan 28, 2024

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yessss i mean it was always so toxic but recently it's been getting so much worse and so many bots i just cant handle the mess anymore, guess i should hop on the GTFO train
Jan 29, 2024
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I’m on day 20 of no X/Twitter and it feels so good :’)
Jan 29, 2024
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it was interesting to put all the journalists, commentators, and critics into the same smoky barroom salon for a whole decade. but ultimately these people should talk to each other, and to their audiences, through their work
Jan 29, 2024
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left a couple years ago and never looked back. it’s so bad for my spirit :(
Jan 29, 2024
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matmcdonut – be the change! move to Groupchats and your work and more specialized, insular spaces... people should talk to each other in their communities; communities should talk to each other in their work
Jan 29, 2024
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emermaid – "not worth it anymore" is exactly the place I landed. The toxic parts were always inherent in the platform but were, for some, outweighed by whatever merits it may have had (as an experiment, I'd say it was interesting but it failed?). Once Elon came along and purposefully broke the functionality of the website, all that remained were the drawbacks and I truly fear he's taking some of our best minds down with it
Jan 29, 2024
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thank you for the reminder :) deleting the app rn
Jan 29, 2024
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i just deleted the app from my phone today. i noticed myself spending too much time thinking about drama that was going on on the site and it was affecting my mental health!
Jan 29, 2024
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i really think if he absolutely had to rename it he should've named it elon's website. and it could just say that at the top in comic sans. that would've actually been kinda funny but he's too much of a self serious bozo for that atp
Jan 29, 2024
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If it wasn’t due to the fact it was so integral to my business network I would have left months ago :(
Jan 29, 2024
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way to escape chief
Jan 28, 2024
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We are finally free 🄲
Jan 28, 2024
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yes I deleted as soon as that sale went through and it is liberating
Jan 28, 2024
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Hey Logan :)
Jan 28, 2024
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I left a few months ago and I’m honestly so glad I did, itā€˜s just not worth it anymore. amazing to realise how less angrier i get about shit online, also realising how that i’m not supposed to know so much about other people either. V freeing imo
Jan 28, 2024
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Can't wait for the replies on this one! Ancillary reading: https://dirt.fyi/article/2023/10/what-was-replying
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everything is politics. from vaccines to lgbt matters, politicians have leveraged the things conservative americans don’t understand to stoke fear and confusion.
this isn’t anything new. what is new is the algorithms that reenforce those fears. comment sections we’re told to treat like real conversation just flooded with faceless accounts saying their most vile inside thoughts. it’s easy to want to interact and easier to just read it all and be mad. but every second spent engaging is another brain scrambling distraction.
these sensationalized posts and comments do nothing for education, understanding, or empathy. even on the left, slacktivism actively hurts the cause. theres an idea that someone who holds ignorant beliefs is *bad* in all politicized fields. but let’s be real, just because uncle jeff is pissed about tuck underwear it doesn’t mean he’s a climate change denier. generalizing people is exactly what politicians want from us.
social issues are important and politics aren’t going away from that any time soon. but social media is a slippery slope and i personally refuse to engage. when it bleeds into my real life (ā€parents just WANT their kids to be transā€) i try to engage in conversations that get to the root of the issue. where’s this info coming from, why do you believe that? these are the kind of questions strangers won’t ask them on the internet.
misinformation is a sickness that we’re all plagued with. to find some truth and understanding we cannot be having these discussions on platforms like facebook or instagram or twitter. if we do, we’re just giving these tech ceos and politicians what they need: engagement and fear
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