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reinvention for the sake of reinvention is silly. I'm sure you're a cool person as is, and change and growth are good, but you shouldn't throw the baby out with the bathwater and just randomize a new set of hobbies and personality traits and whole vibe...
figure out what values you're committed to, figure out what you like about yourself, figure out what traits you value in others... explore, meet people, learn from their perspectives, keep an open mind, try new things. Explore art in different media--it doesn't have to be fine portraits and sculptures... sometimes you just go from being a TV person to being a movie person and movies start to give you new perspectives.
but don't just pick up personality traits ad-hoc. keep a focus on who you want to be and stay directed towards that goal. explore, but don't get distracted, don't get lost.
Apr 18, 2024
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my favorite thing to do is just start over with myself, like little things : my style, my hair. I think that i find myself being tied down to things that i’ve kinda branded myself as i didn’t realize that i can change..
Feb 24, 2025
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i find that it's about knowing yourself and who you've always been, then taking that into the world, having new experiences and doing things, and eventually finding little bits of yourself out there in the world. it's easy to forget but hold onto what you love and you'll keep yourself, and if you keep yourself you'll know without question.
Feb 17, 2025

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Latelt ive been obsessed with smerz's latest release, ive been replaying a thousand lies over and over. ive been attracted to songs about monotony and risk vs reward(roll the dice) lately. But i also yearn to break free from it, i think that itch is being scratched by f5ves album sequence 01. underground being about escaping from work and lettuce being about having a health nut boyfriend thats a dick Lol. I havent posted on here for a while, does anyone know who I should be listening to next?
Jul 2, 2025