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What voice do they use? Do they refer to themselves in the third or first person? Do they even have one? What songs are stuck in their heads? What intrusive memory keeps them up at odd hours?
Jan 26, 2024
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sometimes if i need to sort some things out i’ll talk to myself in the mirror and pretend a smart friend of mine or general cool person who can read my mind is probing me with questions. othertimes i’ll just completely nathan fielder and map out social encounters and try out different conversations to see which ones go best. or maybe i just see what punchlines i can get out of my recent days so i can later “casually and spontaneously” say them. wtv way is most helpful to you spending time with yourself is good 👍
Feb 25, 2024
I love to ask what people are currently “in to” - meaning current inspirations, fixations, interests, etc.
1. It’s subtle but revealing- I now know what you are interested in and get a hint at how you view life (ex. some interests can be perceived as narcissistic/surface level vs. thoughtful/curious) *Granted, not eveyone will have a good answer (or may not even be able to answer) and that will tell you all you need to know!!
2. Naturally we love to talk about ourselves and our passions so it will certainly keep the conversation going. Extra points for asking questions about what they say (maybe you’re interested, maybe you’re not- but at least it’s not awkward anymore)
May 22, 2025
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people usually jump at the opportunity to share things they enjoy and you’ll get to learn a lot more about them <3
May 28, 2025
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I really cannot describe how comforting it is to know that whenever I'm hungry I have 3 full taperwares of stewed black beans just sitting in my fridge.
Jan 29, 2024
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Isn't it exciting?? I feel like I'm constantly being humbled by new information. And there are more ways than ever to learn new things! More platforms, more people to know, more places to see. As someone who enjoys being right (yikes), I'm working on leaning into the intrigue of being wrong, or in the dark.
I worked out today and actually drank water... which is probably why I feel this way. Take it with a grain of salt and check back in tomorrow!
Jan 24, 2024
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I haven't done this yet, but I'm about to and I'm sort of giddy about it! My high school? The Dairy Queen parking lot? The strip mall where I got stopped by a cop for 'not turning my headlights on fast enough?' The makeout point that abuts the grocery store? Good lord there's so much to see! Please understand these places made me who I am!! There's a whole part of me you haven't met yet!
Jan 26, 2024