as a non-binary person, this has never happened to me so casually but i got a fresh haircut and some pep in my step and i think the confidence inspires respect hehehe "sir" hehehehehehehe
go to events even if u think they’ll be iffy - better to have some memories of living life than none, go to library, go sit on the nearest grass
also u can’t expect good arts and culture if u don’t support the bad/amateur stuff as well 🦀