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like when a man is so afraid of possibly being perceived as gay that it's noticeable in his interactions with his male friends - two guys chillin in a hot tub five feet apart cuz they're not gay type vibe. immediately no if they're also weird about being around gay men who certainly are not interested in them.
on the other hand a man being a little gay with his friends is whatever the opposite of an ick is for me

@shelbs

23h ago

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@raven87

yes agreed. this did remind me though that I don’t like men being flirty with their male friends and pretending like they aren’t

21m ago

@marxinista

i feel like it makes them interact so poorly with women too. i was recently talking to someone about how some men’s (obnoxious) nonchalant-ness clearly comes from a fear of engaging in feminized traits (like caring, listening not just to talk, etc) and being perceived as gay, and it results in them being totally weird at best (asshole at worst)

16h ago

@llq

agreed whole heartedly

23h ago

@shelbs

@LLQ you get me 🫶🏻

23h ago

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