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moving to germany for masters in sept and already facing imposter syndrome and being preemptively afraid. this decision only makes me admire my mom more (somehow even more than i did before) for coming to the US by herself with no one to help.
If anyone has any advice for living in germany (40 mins north from frankfurt) as a foreigner, pls let me know :)
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you’re gunna be GREAT!!! honestly i’ve never been but if you can be this self aware and reflective, you can make it through this new adventure. maybe you could try to get involved in some local community orgs? :) you will also 100% make friends in grad school!!! once you get there it’ll all come together :)
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@CHRONICWEBUSER thanks <3!! im definitely grateful to even be able to have this opportunity. I’ll def take ur advice!
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@ANEGG you’re gunna be great! :) ♥
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my biggest piece of advice is just be on time. the germans dont play about being late. (being on time is being 5 minutes early for reference). germany can be a very welcoming place honestly, you get what you give!
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@LLQ. thankfully i’m chronically early to everything. thanks for the advice!
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i moved to germany to work for a year and sometimes i feel so out of place going out but then i remember nobody cares what im doing! go sit by the creek and share a beer with a friend. play cards in a restaurant !! go out and exist loudly for yourself.
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I haven't lived in Spain but I spent 2 years in southern Europe. I thought I was prepared for the slower pace of things but I really wasn't. The DMV has a bad reputation, but you will be thinking fondly of it if you have to interact with any bureaucratic institution. Also be prepared to be hot as hell in the summer. Most countries aren't big on AC. And learn Spanish (or Catalan depending on where you move) if you don't already know it. I didn't speak the language and got by, but life will be MUCH easier if you do (even a little).
Don't let this scare you off, moving to Europe was the best decision of my life. Make sure you travel around a lot. I personally think all Americans should be forced to spend 1 year abroad, so if you've got the option take advantage of it. Some of Spain is anti-tourist now (ex Barcelona) but I've been to a couple of places and really enjoyed the food and architecture.
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