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dont get me wrong, it ain’t easy or straightforward, but telling a friend or two when I’m feeling super rough does actually make me feel better, and often prompts a catch up or a meme exchange or just mutual commiserations about shitty days or weeks or parts of our lives. And, it helps remind you it’ll be alright.
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♥️I always try and focus on the little things a have control over. I know that may be easier said than done as I also struggle with getting out of sad moods. I love my friends because I can talk to them about this or just bullshit about stuff and I feel seen and loved. sometimes that’s enough. I have also been going on walks recently even though the weather is lame. listening to the wind somehow seems to ground me. hope this helps❤️❤️
Feb 2, 2025
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💔instead of trying to change how i feel about it, i let myself mourn what once was. i give myself the space and kindness to cry. i cry in the car, in my room, and in the shower. then after a couple days i get back on my feet and hangout with the people who i know love me through and through. they remind me that no matter what the other person said, that i am worthy of love, respect, and their time 🫂
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🚗This is kinda a long story but I really want to tell it because I’m having so many mixed emotions and thoughts over it.
I just had a work party and I really didn’t want to go because the people I work with are cool but like I don’t want to see all of them on my day off (no offense), but anywho, there was this dishwasher there who Ive met before but never really talk to because we don’t work the same days and he looked so over the party and I was leaving and knew we live near each other (we go to the same college) so I offered him a ride home to which he gladly accepted. I also know he’s super introverted and not chatty at all (unlike me the chatty extrovert) so I didn’t force him to talk to me or anything but by the end of the ride I ended up sitting outside his dorm for so long letting him just talk to me and he started tearing up over how he recently just went through all this friend drama and he’s feeling so lost and alone and how he went from having all these awesome friends to them kinda screwing him over behind his back. I wish there was more I could have done for him in the moment but I just listened and gave him my number if he ever wanted to talk, but I hope he knows that when I said everything is going to work out and be alright I meant it. he’s such a sweet kid and seeing him upset made me so sad😕 anyways if youve been through this or are going through this, you’re not alone and you’re not a bad person, you just need to find your people and it’s okay to take your time and find the ones who make you feel good about yourself and loved and sooo wanted because they’re out there! Trust me!
I just had a work party and I really didn’t want to go because the people I work with are cool but like I don’t want to see all of them on my day off (no offense), but anywho, there was this dishwasher there who Ive met before but never really talk to because we don’t work the same days and he looked so over the party and I was leaving and knew we live near each other (we go to the same college) so I offered him a ride home to which he gladly accepted. I also know he’s super introverted and not chatty at all (unlike me the chatty extrovert) so I didn’t force him to talk to me or anything but by the end of the ride I ended up sitting outside his dorm for so long letting him just talk to me and he started tearing up over how he recently just went through all this friend drama and he’s feeling so lost and alone and how he went from having all these awesome friends to them kinda screwing him over behind his back. I wish there was more I could have done for him in the moment but I just listened and gave him my number if he ever wanted to talk, but I hope he knows that when I said everything is going to work out and be alright I meant it. he’s such a sweet kid and seeing him upset made me so sad😕 anyways if youve been through this or are going through this, you’re not alone and you’re not a bad person, you just need to find your people and it’s okay to take your time and find the ones who make you feel good about yourself and loved and sooo wanted because they’re out there! Trust me!
Feb 11, 2025
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❗Holey shit I actually just love being a normie human !! This rocks fr, being famous sounds like a literal nightmare why is everyone so obsessed w it !!!
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🫶Normally I feel isolated sitting on the bus, headphones on, but PI just makes me feel more connected to other people
Mar 16, 2025
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💖compliment the barista‘s cool jumper. the nice earrings the checkout chick is wearing. the colour of your cousins nail polish. stop it with the ‘you look great’ when people lose weight or ‘you look so much better’ when someone’s skin finally clears up. It’s 2025 and people deserve to ACTUALLY feel good when you give them a compliment.
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